I was out with my friends and this is what one of them said.
So, I had to share my thoughts. And this is what I shared.
Sex is the air that men breathe. They think about sex at least once every five minutes.
If they are not hungry and thinking of food, then they are thinking of sex.
Sex is extremely important to men. And since our men are extremely important to us, then we need to recognize that. But... if you're having sex with your hubby so that he'll be nice to you, then you've got a serious problem on your hands. Sex is not a cure to that problem. You've got to figure out why both of you are no longer madly in love with each other. Love is the foundation. If you love each other, you'll be nice to each other forever.
About 10 years ago, my friend said to me, "Get a Brazilian. He'll love it."
Well, I did. And HubbyHubby loved, loved, loved it, alright!
What does your hubby like?
Don't know? Ask him.
What's down there to make your HubbyHubby happy-happy?
My friends and I went out for happy hour recently.
Our conversation turned to "husbands" and "marriage."
Kate shared her story. Sarah and Bob have 2 small children and their marriage is rocky. Sarah wanted to try something new, so she sent a sweet text to her husband, Bob. When Bob got home he was over the moon with delight. It was like someone gave him the greatest gift he could ever imagine.
Men love it when their women love them. The littlest things can mean so much to your man. Sending a sweet text to your hubby may take seconds and can mean the world to him. Sending a naughty text (sext) to your man will put him over the top.
Recognize that our men are out in the world working hard. No one is building them up or praising them. Their day could be filled with incredible challenges, including criticism, pressure, and deadlines. When your man receives a sweet message from his lover, he'll be the happiest man on Earth.
Here are some text ideas:
1. Thinking of you sweetie.
2. Thinking of you & the amazing sex we had this morning.
3. I love you.
4. You are the best.
5. Miss you. Can't wait to see you tonight.
6. You make me so happy.
7. You are the light of my life.
9. You are the man of my dreams.
What are some sweet text messages you can send your hubby this week? Make a list of sweet texts, and then work on a bunch of sexts. Go ahead. You can do it. Make his day. Put a little reminder in your calendar to send your man a little message.
My good friend at the gym loves her hubby a ton. When I told her about HubbyHubby.com she said, "Treat your husband like a king and your life will be better." I couldn't agree more.
Here are some practical ways I treat HubbyHubby like a king:
1. I keep the attractiveness of our home - especially the bedroom.
2. I keep his favorite coffee in stock.
3. I massage his shoulders at night.
4. I thank him when he does something for me - big or small.
5. I speak sweetly to him with a kind tone of voice.
6. I put love notes or lace panties in his lunch box.
7. I have and enjoy sex with him lots.
8. I'm courteous and appreciative of him.
9. I don't nag, criticize, or attempt to remake him - especially in front of others.
10. I keep my attractiveness personally.
11. I spoil him outrageously.
12. I'm practical with my time, money and expectations.
How does this make my life better?
When I treat HubbyHubby like a king, he is built up, encouraged and strong. Like a victorious king who can and will conqueror any task for his woman.
You are the ONLY person on the planet who can treat your man like a king. You, and ONLY you, can love, appreciate, admire, praise and adore him.
This week write down 3 things that you will do to treat your hubby like a king.
Don't know what he wants? Ask him. He'll tell you.
In return, your life will be better.
Hubbyhubby and I decided to have each day of the week designated to a different breakfast.
Monday - scrambled eggs
Tuesday - fruit smoothie
Thursday - fruit smoothie
Friday - over easy eggs & toast
Saturday - pancakes
Sunday - spinach omelets
Why? You ask. This way our three children know what to expect and it eliminates morning craziness of "what's for breakfast?" or "eggs.... yuck, I don't want eggs".
Mixed Berry Smoothie
Here's what you'll need:
1 cup frozen mixed berries
2 egg yolks
1 cup milk of your choice
1 T. vitamin C powder
1 frozen Acai berry packet
1 small hand full of goji berries
Blend all ingredients in a Vitamix and add water or milk to desired consistency.
Enjoy and be in health.
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